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Friday, April 12, 2013

Confirmed and Planned

Brother arrives here Thursday, takes Dad and bed and clothes away.  It's a day Brother isn't scheduled to work.  Brother brings Dad to Sister's house and she brings Dad to assisted living house.

The place sounds great.  Corner room, flowering trees out the windows, some fancy bedroom furniture left behind (better than here), all the meals and snacks he wants, fancy screened porch with meals out there on nice days), talking with people his own age, TV, friends, care, etc.  And for less than his monthly retirement annuity.  He was worried about losing money staying there.  He won't (he has a better retirement annuity than I do).

Sister and I have pretty much locked down Dad's assets.  POA and all that and he can't cheated out of of it.  Anyone so much as gets a suspicious check and its all frozen at once.

We've done what we can.


5 comments:

Katie Isabella said...

I know you feel good as you should feel, that he is going to a good place. Looks like you all indeed have done all you can.

Katnip Lounge said...

You know I'll be thinking of you and your Dad on Thursday. I hope it goes well.

Mariodacatsmom said...

Good luck - Thursday will be hard in ways, but oh so good in others. This sounds like a really nice place your dad is going to. Bless you for doing so very much for him - now you can relax a little.

Shaggy and Scout said...

It sounds really ideal Mark!
You HAVE done what you can and you did it well. Lynne

Megan said...

Here's hoping that he loves it!

Megan
Sydney, Australia